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Almost half of elderly report pain in life's final months

"This study shows that there's a substantial burden of pain at the end of life, and not just the very end of life"

 

Grief, unedited

Most older people who lose spouses from natural causes recover much more quickly than we have come to expect.

Ever since Joan Didion’s book “The Year of Magical Thinking” began its long run as a best seller in 2005, a number of first-person accounts of losing a husband have been published. Among them are Kate Braestrup’s “Here If You Need Me,” Anne Roiphe’s “Epilogue” and Kay Redfield Jamison’s “Nothing Was the Same.” This week, they are being joined by Joyce Carol Oates’s memoir “A Widow’s Story,” which recounts the death of her 77-year-old husband, Raymond Smith, from complications of pneumonia in 2008.

On death and dying: what the dying have to teach doctors, nurses, clergy and their families

This is the world-famous best-seller by the woman who popularized the field of thanatology as a subject for general social commentary. Written in plain language that anyone can understand, this important book can help families understand what's going on as death of a loved one draws near.

The survivor’s guide: what you need to know and what you need to do when someone close to you dies

V.K. Thornton brings more than a decade of experience in human resources and financial education to an extremely emotional issue: what a person needs to know when someone close to them dies.

This guide gives vulnerable people easy-to-use tools to protect their money, and avoiding or dealing with crooks and crooked business.

What to do when someone dies: from funeral planning to probate and finance

Cope the bereavement is never easy. Besides the impact of loss and emotional upheaval, there are several arrangement to do: register the deceased person, funeral, burial procedures, probate, tax, financial affairs and administration.

This book help to deal with the formalities as straightforward and simple as possible. Presenting different options in a clear and logical manner, it allows you to make your own choices rather than being swept along by events.

Putting off the final farewells

In an increasingly mobile world, more people are delaying family funerals.

When Sue Walker's dad died in January, she immediately began planning his services -- for July.

To honor her father, former Minneapolis Police Chief Jerry Lutz, Walker and far-flung family members will play some golf and cards, drink some scotch and "call it a day," she said.

"If we can have everybody here and do something he loved, it will be more of a tribute," Walker said.

Although some funeral experts suggest immediate services to help in the grieving process, more families are waiting weeks or even months to hold memorials.

I will remember you: what to do when someone you love dies – a guidebook through grief for teens

This book for teens is an accessible guide to coping with loss. It includes stories of death and life from real teens, advice from a renowned grief counselor, and dozens of hands-on creative exercises to help them to leave behind their pain and sorrow.

Each chapter helps readers explore different aspects of grief, such as denial, ritual, remembering, mourning a stranger, and anniversary "aftershocks".

What to do when someone dies: a legal, financial and practical guide

This practical book is about how to handle the affairs of someone who has recently died and how to plan for the efficient management of one's own matters after death.

There is also a DVD entitled "What to do when someone dies", that covers much of the same material and acts as a visual reinforcement to this book.

Milton Berry Scott is an estate planning attorney since 1972. 

Grief: loss of a loved one

The differences and effects associated with loss, grief and bereavement. How to help people who are not able to overcome the grief.

What is grief?

Helping your child deal with death

Be honest and encourage questions of your child, explaining that there's no one right or wrong way to feel. Share with him or her your spiritual beliefs about death.

When a loved one dies, it can be difficult to know how to help kids cope with the loss, particularly as you work through your own grief.

How much kids can understand about death depends largely on their age, life experiences, and personality. But there are a few important points to remember in all cases.

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